What the hell...

God my ex pisses me off!!! My ex-boyfriend came over today and he told me that he's finally realized why he hated me talking to my parents every night. He said that I was the only thing he had, and I had four people for support (him, my parents, and my sisiter). He basically said that I should only rely on him for everything. He wanted me to choose between my family or him. I don't know why he would ever think I would give up my family. Family is always first. I am so mad that he would even think to make me choose. Am I wrong? Should I have to choose? Arghhhh.....